A 21-step Path to Discover and Do What You
Love with Your Life's Work
by Craig Nathanson, The Vocational
Coach
In mid-life, many of us are unfulfilled in
our lives and
careers. We have a deep longing for
change. We often feel
that we've waited too long to pursue our
dreams, and believe
that we have no choice but to settle for
our current lot in
life. Choosing how to fill such a deep
void is no small
task. There is no shortage of expert
advice from
professionals, family, and friends about
what to do about
the work dilemma. Sometimes, the advice is
good. But too
much of it is based on the needs of the
person giving the
advice, and not what is best for
you.
A
Roadmap to Vocational Passion
I
developed the following 21-step path to discovering and
doing what you love. Start with a few
small steps and you
will find that the process will soon take
hold. Then, you
will never turn back!
1. Evaluate what you
want
2. Envision your
future
3. Tune out negative
feedback
4. Shore up your support
network
5. Assess your
risk
6. Figure out what's the worst thing that
can happen
7. Write down your abilities and
interests
8. Match your abilities and interests
9. Talk to others who do what you want to
do
10. Get a sense of what your passion will
pay
11. Change financial expectations in the
short term
12. Borrow or cash-in now to fund your
move
13. Expect the first two years to be tough
gathering
support
14. Prepare to downsize your life where
possible
15. Explain to your loved ones why these
changes are
important
16. Become an expert in what you
love
17. Start believing that your new future
is possible
18. Take small steps while measuring and
rewarding yourself
19. Don't ever look
back
20. Give yourself permission to do what
you love
21. Practice what you love
daily
Make no mistake: Following your vocational
passion will be
the toughest work you'll ever do. It will
also be the most
rewarding. Start at the beginning, develop
a plan, and keep
moving ahead one step at a time. Then pack
your bags and
enjoy the ride.
Craig Nathanson, The Vocational Coach, is
the author of
"P
is for Perfect: Your Perfect
Vocational Day," by Book
Coach Press. He publishes the free monthly e-zine,
"Vocational Passion in Mid-life." Craig believes the
world works
a
little better when we do the work
we love. He helps those
in mid-life carry this out. Visit his online
community at http://www.thevocationalcoach.com
where you can sign up
for his
free monthly tele-class.
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